f you find yourself saying …. “I should have" … “I could have” …"or I would have" … stop, and take some moments to think about you, and where you are now and where you want to go.

It's about creating your vision - that vision of your “ideal” self - that vision that makes you feel satisfaction, happiness, contentment, accomplishment. In short, activating your plan for personal growth, with the reward being fulfillment.

Life's too short to minimize that reward.

Health is more than just physical; it's a mindset.

Sometimes, however, our mindset can become limiting. We might feel constrained by notions of aging or believe that certain opportunities have passed us by due to perceived limitations.

Society and even medical professionals can inadvertently reinforce these beliefs.

I recall visiting a Rheumatologist in my early forties due to joint pain, particularly in my knees and elbows. While I suspected a possible tick bite (which was later confirmed), my doctor remarked,

"Well, you are getting older. Aches and pains are part of the aging process."

This statement felt disheartening and somewhat insulting, as age shouldn't dictate our capabilities or define our potential.

Everyone starts at a baseline, and with the right commitment, one can embark on new endeavors at any age.

September is the notorious “Back to School” month. There's a palpable energy in the air. Everyone seems to be “starting up” again.

Did you know, according to organizational behavior experts, September and October tend to be our most productive months?

So I figured, why not put our best foot forward and figure out how to seize that opportunity of productivity and activate it for ourselves.

For those who have been on my mailing list for awhile, you know I write about goal setting from time to time.

Because it is easy to get lazy with goal setting, I like to occasionally tee it up, and offer new ways of thinking about how to achieve our goals.

While most of us are probably not headed back to school, the “back to school” mentality provides a tidy process for enabling us to think through and activate our goal planning process.

I love the way celebrity chef Seamus Mullen looks at the notion of health.

As a person struggling with Rheumatoid Arthritis who almost died in his thirties, he had to push away the perception that he was doomed by this disease.

He knew he could manage his illness better than what he was doing.

The starting point for him, in his words, was this:

“The first step to becoming a healthy person is believing you can be healthy.”

A recent interview with The Band of Sisters, a group of former PepsiCo executives and authors of the new book, You Should Smile More, brought into focus the power of reflection. When you give yourself time to think about the advice that you would give to your younger self, you may be surprised by the wisdom that is revealed … and the power that advice still has to illuminate your future.